Are You Too Good For Him?!

Everyone dates the wrong people all the time. We’ve all been there, done that! In fact, it is definitive that before you finally find the right person to settle down with, you will date people who are not just bad for you, but also, who are not good enough for you.

How do we know then, if we are too good for him or her? Is it low self esteem or being ruled by chemistry as opposed to logic? Whatever the case may be, sometimes we end up with someone we’re simply too good for, and when we do, we need to bail!

But when you’ve fallen in love with someone and the brain has kicked into that mode where all that matters is that person, morning, noon and night; clarity and reason bid adieu! It is then, when you need to summon the strength and be able to pick up on the signs that your partner is simply not good enough for you.

Here are eight signs that can help you shake such people out of your life. You need to make a move to get out now and find someone who’s worthy of all the fantastic things you have to offer.

 They can’t even bring themselves to meet you halfway!

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Whether it’s a brand new relationship or you’re five years into something long-term, you need to be with someone who is your equal. I don’t mean equal in money or education, but equal in that they give just as much as you do in the relationship. If you’re both only into giving 10 percent to your relationship, then fine; but if you’re giving 90 and they’re giving 10 then you have all the proof you need that this person just isn’t good enough for you.

You’re The Grown-Up In The Relationship

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The thing with adult relationships is that neither one of you gets to be the child at all times. Yes, you can take turns indulging in immaturity from time to time, but when it comes down to it, you both need to be grown-ups, no matter how painful the idea may seem. If you realize you’re the one who’s constantly having to slip into the adult role, because your partner either doesn’t want to or doesn’t know how to, then you’re far too good for them.

They Don’t Support Your Goals

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I mean, come on! Your goals for the future not only define you, but they’re your dreams, dammit! Anyone who doesn’t support the goals you have for yourself or even remotely shits on them, is not someone with whom you should waste your time.

They Lack Ambition Of Their Own

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In keeping with the topic of goals, another big sign that someone isn’t good enough for you is if they don’t have any ambition of their own. The point of life is to move upward and onward, and if you’re doing that, but your partner isn’t because they’re content to just float through life, then send them on their way. You can’t have someone hanging on to your coattails when you start rolling in the success you’ve achieved, because you had the gumption to set goals for yourself and follow through.

You’re Constantly Being Made To Feel Inferior By Them

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According to research, people go out of their way to make others feel awful about themselves because of their own insecurities. Since this long held societal belief is in fact true, it’s just the necessary proof you need that they’re actually getting off on putting you down and you’re just so much better than that.

Honesty Is Clearly Not Their Best Policy

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Relationships are about trust and honesty ― end of story. Someone who can’t even be decent enough to be honest with you, no matter what the topic, is completely unworthy of you on not just a relationship level, but even a friend level, too.

They’re Not Proud Of How Great You Are

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Anyone who gets to date you should be jumping up and down with joy about it! They should be announcing it from every rooftop within a 50-mile radius! If they’re not stoked to be with you or they seem even remotely embarrassed by you, then you’re totally too good for that person and that nonsense.

You’re Constantly Defending Them To Your Friends And Family

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The thing about friends and families is that they have the great opportunity to know you and know you well, and see clearly something that you can’t because you’re caught up in it. Your friends and family only want the best for you and if they’re constantly pointing out just how awful this person is for you, how completely beneath you they are, as you try to defend them, then it’s time to listen up. Your friends and family have nothing to gain from being honest in those situations, except seeing you be with someone deserving of you later on down the road.


 

So, don’t waste your time with someone for whom you’re just too damn good!

 

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